5 Male Sex Facts That Might Surprise You


Although it may seem that male sexuality is simple, it is more complicated than we thought. In the forefront, we know how aggressive men are in achieving sexual arousal but behind it is a complex process. Let us discover a few male sex facts to better understand men and their sexuality.

On the other hand, a lot of men look at female orgasms as a puzzling and mysterious process. For instance, women experience two types of orgasms, the vaginal and clitoral orgasms. Most men when asked which type of orgasm his female partner experienced, it can lead to confusion and even feel inadequate to some point.

Male sexuality is not just about stimulation either physical or psychological. Just like women, male sex involves many processes that include the emotion, as well as physical and psychological well-being. Understanding male sex facts beyond the penis anatomy can help us understand more about masculinity.

Perhaps, change and improve a man’s sex life and performance, too.

1. Male G-Spot Is Real

It is well-known that G-Spot exists in women and when properly stimulated, it helps achieve more intense orgasms. G-Spot exists in men, too.

Male G-Spot can be accessed two inches inside the rectum towards the testicles. It is actually a gland with size approximately of a walnut. The male g-spot is the prostate gland.

Stimulating the male prostate can result in more intense orgasms even more sensitive than the penis. The stimulation to the male g-spot is known as the prostate massage.

In Western cultures, there are devices available for massaging the prostate. These prostate massager devices are inserted via the rectum. However, there is also an ancient Eastern practice by the Chinese Taoists using only the mind to stimulate the prostate.

For first timers, this is not an easy thing to do but with constant practice, it’s possible. Master Mantak Chia is teaching this technique in his book, The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know.

2. Prevalence of Uncontrollable Ejaculations

If you’re a man thinking about your sexual performance; if it’s OK to ejaculate 2 minutes into sexual penetration or even during masturbation, you’re not alone. About 75% of men experience premature ejaculation. In one study1 researchers call it ejaculatory inevitability. In another study2 researchers listed premature ejaculation as one of ejaculatory disorders.

Is there a way to overcome it? Absolutely! Learn more on how to overcome premature ejaculation. Even certain yoga poses are helpful in overcoming it.

3. Refractory Period Is Real

The refractory period is also known as the recovery period. This is a period in which men regain sexual arousal after the last ejaculation. At this point, the penis is in its flaccid state. Most men, regardless of sexual stimulation won’t be able to achieve an erection during the refractory period.

In fact, men at this period after having sex don’t think of sex at all. Hence, never experience sexual arousal. On the other hand, men who are multi-orgasmic have different experience. Multi-orgasmic men can do non-stop sex for many hours.

4. Having Oral Sex Can Increase Penis Size

In 2013, news hit the online media outlets as one new study says oral sex can increase penis size. The study is published in Journal of Sexual Medicine. The researchers from Indiana University had 1,661 American men respondents through self-reporting technique.

Dr. Debby Herbenick, sex expert and director of Center for Sexual Health Promotion in Indiana University Bloomington says that fellatio plays a part in the increase of penile length and girth.

The comparison was made between men who received oral sex through fellatio experienced larger penis size than men who were fantasizing or masturbating. Sounds too good to be true but perhaps, men can add oral sex as one of the safe and natural penis enlargement technique.

5. Male Penis Types Exist

There are two primary types of male penis namely growers and showers. You can also find information on this in the FAQ section but we’ll repeat it here for the purpose of clarity and coherence.

A grower penis is small when flaccid but increases its size several times significantly when erect. For instance, a 1-inch flaccid grower penis can reach up to 6 inches when fully erect.

On the other hand, shower penises are long and large even in the flaccid state. It barely increases it size during erections. For instance, a 5.5 inches flaccid shower penis will only reach 6 inches when fully erect.

You can find more penis facts here.

Bottom Line

One of the facts here like ejaculatory inevitability may be disappointing. However, utilizing certain techniques any man can overcome it. Additionally, the recovery period is real but it’s a different perspective for multi-orgasmic men.

Fortunately, any man can become multi-orgasmic through edging, ballooning and Kegels exercises.

Moreover, men and women can also practice sexual kung fu. This is an ancient practice by the Chinese Taoists. Luckily for us, we don’t have to visit China and look for a teacher for it. Another book by Mantak Chia, The Multi-Orgasmic Couple: Sexual Secrets Every Couple Should Know teaches this technique.

For more facts about male sexuality, read facts on erections and sperms. You can also find condom facts, male reproductive health and fertility.

Moreover, you might also interested in reading penis facts and myths.


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