How To Boost Her Sex Drive Through Sexual Self-Image Stimulation

It is every man’s fantasy and dream to having a phenomenal sexual relationship with a woman. However, not all men are blessed with a fantastic sexual partner.

In turn, this makes sex life a little unsatisfactory, or perhaps even a dull one. Although, for some men achieving that fantastic sexual encounter with his partner is not of a big deal, but the majority wants to experience it, anyway.

Self-Image Tips

We are gonna be talking about how to rev up the sexual drive of a woman. The tips revealed here are not quite a secret. In fact, these are common, but perhaps due to the simplicity, they have been overlooked. There are certain fundamentals of exciting a woman’s sex drive.

Simply conveying to your girl that she is hot and sexy is a powerful thing to her. Sounds simple, right? Yes, it does, but most men forgot this and neglect to do it, specially if the relationship has been awhile.

It is a fact that woman’s self-esteem is not entirely dependent on her partner’s deeds and words. However, a man can do more in pumping a woman’s ego making her feel sexy. If a man is successful in provoking a woman’s sexiness, it builds self-esteem and harmony between partners.

When such level of intimacy occurs, something magic happens. Sex happens often, and not just ordinary sex but pleasurable sex. This occurs because a woman’s attitude towards sex is directly linked on how she views her sexual appeal.

Also, it is worth mentioning the somewhat lost of intimate and emotional connection between partners or couple can hurt the overall health of the relationship. Today, it is not unusual to hear women say they want to achieve better orgasms every time, and men who want to do it right every time.

However, even if the couple wants such amazing level of intimacy, it is not being achieved even if they are together for many years either married or not. It is because there is somewhat a missing link that should make the connection between couple’s intimate emotional realms.

If you are reading this article because you are experiencing the same thing, sex therapy or counseling might be necessary, or perhaps performing an orgasmic meditation(OM‘ing) from time-to-time can be very helpful, too.

These are two completely different topics, but for now let us dive into the….

Tips On Revving Up A Woman’s Libido

Simple tips on how to rev up a woman’s sexual desire that leads to a more enjoyable and pleasurable sex every man desire.

Always Be There For Her

Make Her Feel Great And Always Be There For Her

A woman has the confident to explore herself and build up sexual magnetism. She is actively seeking her own satisfaction. Making her feel great and comfortable can ignite her to initiate sex with her partner. During sexual intercourse, it is vital to let the woman reach an orgasm.

Additionally, taking the time to have an oral sex with her makes her more comfortable. Tell her that she is beautiful in an honest manner. Talk what she prefer when during sex, like changing positions. Foreplay also plays an important role.

Compliment Her Performance

Apparently, the best way to persuade a woman is to compliment her positive performances. Telling her, “You really blow me away last night. I cannot stop thinking about it”. One more powerful compliment would be, “You really turn me on. I did not know you are that great”.

Affection Compliment and Adore Her

Complimenting her makes her excited and think her next daring move to blow you away. Just like anything in life, complimenting triggers excitement and positive perspective.

When she is comfortable talking about her performance, she is open for more suggestions and willing to perform even more towards a satisfying sexual experience. It is a surprising encounter when those bad performances could turn into a  fantastic and pleasurable experiences.

Build Trust

Building and establishing trust are an important factor  in a long-term relationship. Building trust slowly and consistently builds a solid foundation in a sexual relationship.

Studies have shown that women who endure long-term relationship are considered respectful and loving. Establishing that trust and security is an important aspect of how women think and feel for themselves.

Build Relationship Trust

Marriage counselors often encounter women patients who have difficulty reaching orgasms as they feel insecure or uncertain about their position in a relationship.

A practical application would be to include her in future plans. Perhaps a trip for two during her birthday or anniversary. Additionally, showing to her that here is nothing to hide. Leaving emails on a laptop or PC wide-open, and allowing her to use the cell phone is a sign of trust.

These are the most common ways to show that a man hides nothing from a woman especially on those couples who are in a long distance relationships due to career or business trips. Overtime, this builds trust and make her feel secure about her position in a relationship.

Keep The High-Level Of Hotness In Her

Women who feel confident with their physical appearance are often having high sexuality. They can boost their sexual drive easily. Therefore, a man’s job is to keep that body hot by complimenting with she wears.

Be Romantic and Affectionate

Sometimes, this requires timing as there may be times when she does not really look good with what she wears.

Make Her Feel You Want Her Always

Women who have regular sexual engagement feel more confident and sexy about themselves. However, a man’s busy work schedules might drop the sex activities significantly.

Hot and Sexy Moves Make Her Want You More

A busy life should not be a reason for letting her down. Upon arriving at home from work, kiss her deeply and sensibly. Make her feel you missed her. Sex may not be the only way to rev up her sexual desires. Other hot moves a man can do is to squeeze her butt every morning surprisingly.

Make her feel you constantly lusting for her. These stolen moments are golden to keeping the relationship on fire.

Readers Comments, Discussions and Questions

  1. These are indeed great tips. I’ve been most of these with my wife since we were just dating. It’s amazing how it sparks our relationship through the dating period and for over 10 years of marriage. It still feels like the first time we’ve met.

  2. I know it’s weird a girl asking advice on a men’s website, but hey sometimes you’ll get the best answer from an unexpected places. Well, I’m a woman 21 years of age and by bf’s is 22 years old.

    We’ve been together for 18 months now, happy and haven’t been gone beyond kissing. Although, there were times when we had almost kinda get into lovemaking, but on those times, I avoid it although my boyfriend wants to keep going. Sometimes, my friends and everyone around believed I’m the least conservative between me and my bf, but hell I am. My point in this type of relationship should not be rushed when it comes to sexual contact.

    I totally understand my bf wants it, I just don’t know how bad he wants it, I simply know he wants it. When I tell my friends about it, they thought I’m crazy and keep telling my bf is going to part from me if I don’t change such mindset, which is not the kind of thing I want to happen.

    So, guys… do you have any tips for me from a man’s perspective and do you see any similar situations around you?

  3. I find myself having interest in questioning my gf past relationships. Should these things get me in trouble with her?

    • Maybe not if you ask her nicely especially if both of you have established trust already. The best thing you can do, perhaps, is tell your story first, then ask her to tell hers.

  4. I am currently linked in a relationship with a 25 yrs old hot woman and I am 38. The relationship we have is mainly for sexual purposes, however we have an excellent communication and feelings for each other, as well. To be honest, she is very aggressive with sex and told me she likes more than one partner, particularly female pals. Must we take it to the next level and move in together or keep it the way it is. SEX is great but its not everything in a relationship.

    We both are comfortable having multiple partners during sex, btw. Well, it is not an everyday thing though … we are committed to each other emotionally but enjoy the romp in the hay with others at times, too. Just sharing my experience 🙂

  5. Personally, I like building trust first especially if we just knew each other because when trust is established, everything would be flawless. Of course, you have to maintain that trust relationship at a very healthy level. It’s easy especially if you’re serious about it.

  6. I can tell through my personal experience, complimenting a woman’s performance truly lift up her confidence which eventually result to better interaction. I may not have enough data on this as I’m not an alpha male who has experience with 100s of women, but I guess consistent two real experiences is enough…well, enough for me. It also opens up a new connection and begin the trust relationship factor.

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